Don't talk dirty....

The words you use have a direct and immediate impact on your life! I'm always amazed that people that use excessively crude language don't realize how they are judged. Most times they come across as crude uneducated slobs. But even worse than that are those that put limitations on themselves by the choice of their words.

Consider what Henry Ford had to say...

whether you think you can
or you think you can't...
either way you are right!

or put another way by Richard Bach...

argue for you limitations
and sure enough they are yours to keep!

My point here is that we so often ensure that we won't succeed at something by eleminating ourselves from the game before it even starts. Consider phrases like; I can't do that, or how about this one, I just don't have the time. Or here is one that really drives me nuts, I'm not smart enough do do that. Here's two more killer phrases, that's just too big of a dream for me and I wouldn't know where to start.

Talk about ways to guarantee that nothing in your life will work. The truth is that there are plenty of people who are no smarter than you or I who have achieved great things. So what do they do that makes them different. Well, for one thing they don't use the same language. They don't elimanate themselves before they start. They dream big and bold and believe somehow they will succeed. They have faith in the desired outcome. They get a hunch and if it feels right they go for it.

So watch your language buster!